Well, let me tell you my friends, I never thought I would be writing this post. Seriously!
Until I was browsing the Indiblogger mail, may be that happened for a reason and possibly it was destined
Valentine’s day has never been my cup of tea. For someone who believes that every moment could be a valentine’s moment, all you need was to be in that realm of mental happiness be in touch and you know they are there for you. Someone who thinks telepathy happens for a reason.
But then times changed. I was introduced to her by my parents. On that day I didn’t even speak to her. You know the way it works in the arranged marriage types. Every one talked. except may be us.
The beauty of relationship is in understanding things without having to say sometimes. I think that happened, and soon we started talking and today we are engaged.
So when everyone asks me how often do you call, I say sometimes, and those times are when there is a connect to say things and get to know us better. And that sometimes could be everyday or alternate days.
There is this acceptance of the dual nature that we are in our work, the way I have been with many companies in my career and she with just one all 14 years! A very digital and socially affable me against a minimal presence online from her side.
I now know there need not be common grounds in a relationship, possibly that would actually open up new points to understand the better of the other person. The beauty of a relationship is in understanding the other person, accommodating them in your world without reservations.
And talking of food, she loves chicken – always has a big taste for anything chicken, so I thought she could have some butter chicken and some biriyani for the lunchbox. So this Valentine’s Day would be remembered for sure. The Lunchbox will be a memory of the bonding between us.
And a note, a very small one at that…
Happy Valentines Day!
A special Lunchbox to celebrate the special day!
Thanks for being the special person in my life…
Have a memorable day!
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